hi all....here goes our first discussion. these days the issue of unwanted babies (out of wedlock babies) is becoming a serious problem among the teenagers especially. The innocent babies are killed and thrown mercilessly. What are the causes of all these dirty deed?? Whom should be blamed? What is the most suitable punishment or kind of rehabilitation to be given to them? Let's share your thoughts....
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Sunday, September 5, 2010
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i'm speechless... so sad
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ZiMAnG: Those babies are innocent.... for me,, who that should be blame is their parent... punishment??? we shall back to our Islamic Law....only this punishment can help our future generation from having more unwanted babies....Salam...
ReplyDeleteAmelia(1h02)..I think they are such a cruel monster for those who thrown away the baby.Even animals loves their babies and we should ashame of that.Personally,both should be responsible for their action.Why don't we married first and then we can have a dozen of babies as we like k..(^^,)
ReplyDeleteSiti(1h02):I want keep the baby.I really like babies b'coz they're cute.But sad to say,there are people who do not appreciate them.What a cruel human being who could throw babies like a death animal in the garbage,river and etc.Why don't they just sent the baby to the welfare to be take care of????THINK ABOUT IT!!!
ReplyDeleteFadhilah(1H02):If i found the baby,i'll pass over the baby to the responsible person.Although i pity to the baby,but i'm not affordable to keep the baby.The one that should be blame is the parents.If the girl did not allowed the boy to do the immoral action,the baby will not be born.So all teenagers should protect themselves.TQ...
ReplyDeleteSaufia(1H02):I'll keep the baby and then give them to welfare.Because ,baby also human being.They do not have any sins.Actually the people that have throw them have a lot of sins.They do 2 sins in a time.First the sin from the sex they do with non "muhrim".Second,they throw that baby that they are killers.So for me both of male and female do that things to be blame.
ReplyDeleteEzzati1h02:when i read newspaper i'm sure i will read this hot topic.oh God what happen to the girl in malaysia today?If i found the baby at anywhere i will send them to responsible people to take care that baby.I will never allowed irresponsible mother to take back their baby although she have realize what she have done before...TQ
ReplyDeleteFilzah1h02:as a human being with a deep of my heart, i would keep the baby..this is bcoz they are innocent.We totally should blame their parents of doing this.According to our religious,we can't do any relationship without married..So,boys n girls should know to behave themselves..luv the baby as we luv ourself..tq
ReplyDeleteme too azim, i'm always thinking about holiday, but this is too much.. I can't stand watching this go on....
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Farhana(1h02):Hi guys….in this matter I dn’t thnk that it is 100% teeneger’s fault.It is not fair to just put the blame on them alone.Indeed parents and society also contribute to this hiccups.Why did I dare to say so???parents is the one who should teach their own children on moral values and ethics.On the parts,society shouldn’t just sit quietly although they saw the wrong deed!!!they should prevent it…
ReplyDeleteTajul(1H02):I agree with you farhana.Actually, all parties should be blamed for this demeanour.All this roots from the early stage in educating teens.The society have closed an eye in their responsibility to guide teenagers until they sink too deep in the depth of sin.People also did not correct teens behaviours (always searching for pairs of the opposite gender) and act as if it is a norm in today's time.To me, the irresponsible members of the society are the main factor of this problem.Thus, teens should be corrected to the right path based on their religions.Tq.
ReplyDeleteakma:i think parents should control their children and their social life...they should know who is their children friends...where they go...and what they do...so can avoid this crime...
ReplyDeletesyazdiana : for me, the government should take responsible toward this problem. for example, held a campaign on the effects of unlimited social life between teenagers..
ReplyDeletesalwani: unwanted babies issue getting more serious....this problem cannot be solved if their social life was uncontrol..
ReplyDeletejudin: how did all of this happen??? i feel sad for those children... parents must give lesson about religion more......
ReplyDeleteidham:nowadays,parents also have same attitude with their child..like,they go to the sosial party...because of that their children follow in their footstep..parents are the biggest factor of this case...like father like son!!!!!
ReplyDeleteShahidatul:we cannot put the blame 100% to their parents...sometimes,peers and media influence their mind..nowadays,a lot of programme give negative effects to the viewers...that why this issues occured...
ReplyDeletefarhan: in my opinion, i believe that the one that should be blamed is the parent's teenagers and the teenagers themselves.. this is because some parents didn't give good educational value to their children.. as for the teenagers, many of them have good educational background but they still involve themselves to do this dirty deed...
ReplyDeleteengku:salam..maybe one day,i think one class full with students born illegally..but nauzubillah...government must take this cases seriously...in my opinion,,one of the way to reduce this cases is support early marriage to the teenagers...TQ..
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ReplyDeletethey shouldn't cover a sin with another sin.. adultery is a great sin, and killing the baby.. that's murder!
Farhana1h02:My dear fadhillah,i'm nt certain in putting all the blame 2 parents only..as the others said its also the teens fault.. and like tajul have said,they are too busy searching 4 their partner as though they would certainly be theirs...for the girls-remember this 'boys just want 2 have a little fun with you!!'so,i would say this:WATCH OUT GIRLS!:-)
ReplyDeleteSyuhaidah_1h02: Those who did it should be blamed.Every religion,either Islam or whatever it is taught us a good thing. Those who did that should be responsible for their own deed.
ReplyDeleteFarah_1h02:Hy guys..i agree with u filzah..we should not only blame the teens,it is totaly came from the parents who shaould shows the right path to the children.
ReplyDeleteRabiatul_1H02:For me,I thlnk the parents who did this contemptible thing are not have religion knowledge in theirselves that had bring them to kill and throw the innocent babies mercilessly.Nowadays,many couple want to show their love feeling toward their lovers even willing to pawn their honour by doing something immoral thing until out of wedlock babies are born but when this happen they don't willing to face the embarrassment that they did and killed their own babies as ashamed to the eyes of the community surrounding.Don't they ashamed to the God by having the heart doing such cruel thing?Consequently,the babies who did not have any sin had became the victims of this embarrassment.
ReplyDeleteeda_1ho2:nowadays,this matter going worsen among the teenagers.i don't want to blame anyone in this matter. as a teenagers, they should prepare themselves for any problems in the future. by the way, i do not agree with most of the comments that only blame the parents. as long the teenagers can protect themselves no matter what,they will not involve in any social problems.
ReplyDeleteXuan ling: i think moral education should be conducted to produce young generation enriched with good moral value n disciplin,so tat they will always know how to take care of themself,take care of the image of their family n respect life
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ReplyDeleteassalamualaikum..
let's protect our next generation!!!
unwanted babies are innocent,we should't blame them..we need to give them a lots of support..teenagers....please be a responsible person..
haila fatiha: for me it is hard to choose either three,because three of them have pros and cons.For those who wanted to keep the baby it is fine but they must be sure that they are in good financial,have work to steady their income.but if they don't their babies might grown as worst as them.Like father like son right??
ReplyDeleteOtherwise they can still adopt the babies to someone that have the title of family or those who really want to keep that baby.at least the future of the baby is secured right??
BUT...it is really bad for them to throw the baby.Ohhhh come on!!!you guys here really done something stupid!!!Please,don't try to add another mistake after mistake that will cause you make double salvo...Don't you think that you might killed that baby if you throw them???If you guys ready for the jail,just go on...I'm gonna clapped my hand.....
faza... i think that teenage nowdays are so carefree because their parents who only care about their child welfare and not their moral value
ReplyDeleteziqah_09:In my opinion,parents to that child should be blamed.How can unwanted babies happened if there were heartless people around us.So,i recommend we should use the islamic law to stop these cases...:-
ReplyDeletehasyira:in my opinion,unwanted baby was getting worse.News about this issue were posted on newspaper almost everyday.Many of this issue was caused by their parent's education and it also caused by influences from peers.We can avoid this problem by giving more education and may be 'early marriage'.If teenagers have an 'early marriage'.this unwanted baby issue for sure have found the best way to solve it....=)
ReplyDeleteida here... salam.. for me, unwanted babies issues happened caused by peers.we can't blame parents fully because peers' influence,the teenagers involved in this immoral activities. so for teenagers, please save our next generations with take a good care of our behaviours....
ReplyDeleteaidil: alo....people who thrown their baby are not supposed to live in this world.how come they do like this???.they do something forbidden, they get baby and then their thrown their baby . so easy they do that. they never think first before do something.they are also the cause of many disease.
ReplyDeleteem...i think both parents and teenagers are at fault in this matter bcoz for those parents who are too busy with their works,of course their children will feel lonely. They will hang out with their peers more than with their family n start from that moment they will slowly involve in this immoral attitude.But it is not 100% their parents fault bcoz they are big enough to think either it is right or wrong.Did they thought they are god to do whatever they like??? WHAT!!!go to h**l with that kind of thinking...they should know for what, their parents sacrifice their time,energy and many more all this time...arghhh,i can't stand it anymore, didn't they felt any guilty for that poor baby??? so i really,really, really hope from all the teenagers out there,please think about ur family 1st before u do something, if not, I'm bet you,you will feel regret for the rest of ur life,remember that!!!
ReplyDeletep/s:sorry for any rude words,I'm just got carried away=)
the comment above from aminatul_1ho2
ReplyDeletehuang : in my opinions ,I also agree that parent should be blamed for this case just like what did syahril said....parents should take care of their child well and instil good moral values to them...Furthermore, religion also play an important role on minimising this sort of crime rates… This is because both moral values and religion teach them to think twice and wisely before they act… On the other hand, the cause is mainly from the criminal’s peers… teenagers nowadays are easily influenced by their friends… so, they might think that what their best friends did was totally correct…consequently, they will do the same thing!!! Ultimately, I think the authority should reinforce the laws and punish the people by hang them to death because they are heartless if they killed the innocent baby!!!!!!
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ReplyDeletehidayah: those people who killed the babies are such cruel..the babies are innocent..so think before act..
seriously i think that those who do the sucks thing like that should be punish such as mandatory!!so that people will scare to commit that sins.
ReplyDeleteSHELLY:I think it is caused by many factors.firstly,the teenagers themselves are assimilated by the western culture. teenage years are often year of rebellion.Albeit their parents have done their role in educate their children since they were young,but still refused to follow what their parents taught.when they found that they were pregnant,they are afraid of telling their parents and lastly they choose to abandon their babies.I think no one have the right to grab one's life.The babies are innocent,teenagers should responsible for their wrong deed.They should be rational in doing every single thing.
ReplyDeletethe causes? it's their selfish self, of course. they all go and do 'bad' things out there, and when they take a wrong step along the way, the poor babies become the victims. i believe those teenagers who involved in doing the dirty deed have no self-conscious at all! XO what's the point in doing THAT, when at the end they're not going to take responsibilities of the consequences!
ReplyDeleteand there's also the parents as one of the factors...
-arifah
There is a Chinese proverb 'Think 3 times before you act'. Apparently, those teenagers involved in sex before marriage don't even think once about the consequences they are going to face. As a result, babies are born and abandon. Those teenagers should be given moral lessons and let them watch videos about how abandoned babies are killed. They should learn how irresponsible and cruel are themselves to the small and delicate lifes of newborns.
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ReplyDeleteIn my opinion,the cause of innocent babies being thrown away by their parents is due to the lack of enforcement of the law and also the lack of understanding by teenagers in this era.They do not understand that a baby is also a living human being and they feel that by throwing it away, all their problems will be solved.Even in the newspapers,everyday we see that a new unwanted baby is thrown away when they could be given up for adoption to a shelter.Many teenagers are afraid of their parents and they do not want to bring shame to the family by telling their parents that they are pregnant and about to be a parent at such a young age.I think that the lack of support from the family is also one of the main reason that innocent babies are killed and thrown away.As an example,family members will look down on their child when they are pregnant at such a young age and they will tend to criticise and accuse the child of being irresponsible.As an accountable parent, they should be giving their child support and encouragement and times like this instead of scolding them and demoralising them.Parents should be more open to the situation and help the child through it away.As for the type of punishment,i think that whoever commits such a crime should be sentenced to a rehabiitlation home.It may not completely transform the teenager but at least it would teach them a lesson so that they know it is wrong to do such a thing and they are killing an innocent being wheter they know it or not.I also think that they should be given a heavy fine so that they will learn their lesson.Sending them to jail will not help them to grow because since they are teenagers,they have their whole life in front of them and sending them to jail will be unjust.Thats all from me =)
ReplyDelete-Shanthini (3H20)-
this social problem actually reflect how their parents teach them...this problem result from the lack of awareness of their parent to provide enough knowledge of 'religion'...i am pretty sure that all religion teach people to avoid (seks before married) because this act are not suit with us ,malaysian that practise the timur lifestyle....so,last word from me,learn our religion and practise it in our life....baby are special symbol of love for those who are married,not to be throw away like rubbish!!!!hopefully,my friends and including me,not involve in this problem....as long as we have the believe in God,the exist of hell and heaven,we will avoid this from happen....
ReplyDeleteabove is ma comment...(syah_man UTD)
ReplyDeleteFadilah (3H20): In my opinion the main problem that contributes to the cases of abandoned babies is the collapse of the family institution. Most of 'problem' teenagers come from broken marriage. So, due to lack of parental affection cause them to easily get stuck with the negative influences. Parents are role models to children.
ReplyDeletethrowing babies, abandoned them, KILLING!!!!(that the worst) = cruel = despicable = animal
ReplyDeletewhat more i can say.
-amirah azmy-
This is d cruel action that is always happen especially among the teenagers...the statistics of this problem increases due to the lack of religion's education...actually we cannot blame all people either parents,society or other...this is because all the citizens should plays an important role in order to overcome this issues...so,in my opinion i think that the parents should keep on eyes on their children's activity so that their freedom can be control by their parents....the most important thing is the teenagers should have the religion's knowledge......-LIZA-
ReplyDeleteFATIN HUSNA_3h20:from my opinion..all this happened cannot be blamed to the family only coz sometimes it comes from the teenagers whose too excitad with their new world:that exposed to relationship btween boys n girls,social activities..punishment???i don't know what is the best becoz the rate of this case still increased
ReplyDeletehakim:the causes of all of those dirty deeds comes from lack of religin knowledge, not just islam, but all the religion want the best for his men.. i think the most suitable punishment for the babies wasters is penalty kill or hanged to death in front of public to warn them...
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